Comments on: Stupid men http://jodistl.wordpress.com/2008/05/16/stupid-men/ Just another WordPress.com weblog Sun, 13 Jul 2008 05:25:51 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Jana http://jodistl.wordpress.com/2008/05/16/stupid-men/#comment-587 Jana Fri, 06 Jun 2008 16:38:31 +0000 http://jodistl.wordpress.com/?p=133#comment-587 Lady, hang in there. BFs and DHs can be very frustrating. I think we just communicate in different ways then they do. The comment he made sounds like something my hubby would say. And then I would be bitter and sassy all night, sleep in it and then realize it was actually his way of trying to say something nice. I am sure you are his beautiful girl, you just have to learn to except it. Lady, hang in there. BFs and DHs can be very frustrating. I think we just communicate in different ways then they do. The comment he made sounds like something my hubby would say. And then I would be bitter and sassy all night, sleep in it and then realize it was actually his way of trying to say something nice. I am sure you are his beautiful girl, you just have to learn to except it.

]]> By: Bonita http://jodistl.wordpress.com/2008/05/16/stupid-men/#comment-586 Bonita Fri, 06 Jun 2008 02:04:41 +0000 http://jodistl.wordpress.com/?p=133#comment-586 My reply is super late but still thought I would say hi and respond. Steph is right. You need to love yourself. I have been over 200 pounds for as long as I can remember yet I have boyfriend and my slimmer friends don't. AND, I've been with him for 5 years and he loves me inside and out. Girl, take the compliment. There are men out there that don't look for skinny minnies...I know my boyfriend is not one of them. He loves a voluptuous body and I appreciate that. I may lose weight but I won't lose my curves or the person that I am inside. We give them both things--a sexy body and a kind heart. Love yourself. Take what he says and own it. Hey, it makes for a better sex life! :-) C'mon, give it a try. My reply is super late but still thought I would say hi and respond.

Steph is right. You need to love yourself. I have been over 200 pounds for as long as I can remember yet I have boyfriend and my slimmer friends don’t. AND, I’ve been with him for 5 years and he loves me inside and out.

Girl, take the compliment. There are men out there that don’t look for skinny minnies…I know my boyfriend is not one of them. He loves a voluptuous body and I appreciate that. I may lose weight but I won’t lose my curves or the person that I am inside. We give them both things–a sexy body and a kind heart.

Love yourself. Take what he says and own it. Hey, it makes for a better sex life! :-) C’mon, give it a try.

]]> By: Steph aka Barbie http://jodistl.wordpress.com/2008/05/16/stupid-men/#comment-585 Steph aka Barbie Fri, 16 May 2008 20:15:06 +0000 http://jodistl.wordpress.com/?p=133#comment-585 Boys are dumb but it's hard to change that. The one thing that you can change is how you look at yourself. I know it's easier said than done but you need to realize that you are beautiful and worthy! I don't know your bf but it sounds like he thinks you are too.......just remember that your feelings about yourself are yours alone and you can't punish others for those feelings. I'm not lecturing but speaking from experience. I completely understand where you are coming from but I promise if you take a minute every day to appreciate who you are, others around you will begin to take notice. In the meantime (((HUGS))) Boys are dumb but it’s hard to change that. The one thing that you can change is how you look at yourself. I know it’s easier said than done but you need to realize that you are beautiful and worthy! I don’t know your bf but it sounds like he thinks you are too…….just remember that your feelings about yourself are yours alone and you can’t punish others for those feelings. I’m not lecturing but speaking from experience. I completely understand where you are coming from but I promise if you take a minute every day to appreciate who you are, others around you will begin to take notice.

In the meantime (((HUGS)))

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